Monday, October 11, 2010

Somewhere down the line

We do tend to hurt the ones we love the most. We know that they have got hurt due to something which we maybe done unknowingly, but aren’t able to do anything about it. I had learned to choose my choices of words carefully when I am upset. Saying "Can I have sometime alone and I promise to talk about it when I cool down." instead of yelling "LEAVE ME ALONE!!!" is one of the most often used opening sentence when I got home upset. Sometimes we don’t have a clue how the people we love feels, but i believe that everything happens for a reason! Along the way we might, we just might realize that what we did is wrong but when at comes down to it all whatever happens happens. Its also just out of nowhere and then you find yourself feeling all the blame, but still there’s always a way to work things out and get along the way. I think we hurt the ones we love the most because we are so comfortable with those people that we just don't think. I have been hurt enough by people I love, that I stop to think, making sure I don't repeat the pattern and hurt someone else. It happens most of the time. Love and hurt comes at the same time.

So so thing.

If people love you, be thankful that you're one of the few whom certain people chose to show their emotions to. Love does not demand to be loved back, but it doesn't mean it exists to be taken for granted. If you can't return the love you're given,, don't let it linger to grow alone. If you don't want it, refuse kindly. Love may not demand but it also deserves a heart that will better understand.

Second of Happiness you can never get b-a-c-k!

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. You just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all; live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of

“CRYPTICALLY SPEAKING: Embrace the pain, Love the hate”

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.” By: Neil Gaiman
Vanzvanzvanz …..Here.
I’ve accidentally read this powerful judgment and it took me a minute; two seconds delay to think and examine myself. I let my office chair swung and my hair wafted; blown away by the electric fan in front of me, it was like a deep cold ice rushing on me in that certainty; as my mind seemed like being attached over my warm body. Stupid as it is but, it strikes me into the unfathomable feelings I have that time. I tried a lot of decoding to perfectly find the pieces inside, the answers to the unknown and the questions out of nowhere but I failed…..and then, you tried yourself to find the answer but you just can’t and you just wouldn’t coz’ fact from the matter, how many times you’d tried to push yourself in attempting to discover the thoughts on your mind..Still you couldn’t find the precise or exact words to flawlessly find the truth. What the truth tells you is as vague as the galaxy does. No specific answer and no place for existence. In the latter you end up nothing. You don’t have a choice but to embrace without losing your grip. You started it with love and simply end it with joy coz’ it’s how you have chosen it, but on how you want it is different at all.

He wasn’t, She wasn’t…. just what you have thought.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

"Why Afraid"


People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.

“You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.”